I have a place to live – it is filled with my furniture, clothes, shoes and the place I sleep. If someone disturbs it or tries to take it over, I will be pretty peeved. Does this mean I’ve settled into life in NYC if I have a home? Or does to settle mean to be still? My life isn’t still that often. It is quite chaotic. But I don’t know if I want that to change. I’ve always thought the idea of settling down to be quite archaic. So I’m not sure I want to settle. But maybe I’ve settled for this life just because it is different.